“Destiny” He Called It

“Destiny” he would call it. Destiny.

Out of nowhere he came into my life. Not aware of the role he would play, I assumed he would just be some good company. Quickly though, I realized that was not all he would be, he would be much, much more.

He wasn’t as smooth as the rest of the guys I had talked to, he was just himself. Right from the beginning it was all about honesty and being so upfront I couldn’t tell whether he was sincere or just wanted to scare me off.  If his plan was the ladder, it surely didn’t work. I was his and he was mine. There was nothing that could make me dream like our future could; Some kids, a dog and a white picket fence, life seemed unstoppable.

Bad boy from the start, and me, the perfect little church going girl,  I was drawn to him like moth to a flame. He was an auto mechanic who ran his dads store with dazzling blue eyes, broad shoulders and a whole lot of muscle.  I was his Baby and he was my Johnny Castle.

Soon the everyday chats  turned into something more. He wanted to run away with me, make me his. I never had heard of a plan that gave me butterflies the way his did.  I fell in love. He fell in love. It was inevitable

Our families would never approve, we both knew that.  But it couldn’t stop us. We were everything in each others eyes. Life wouldn’t be easy. We would fight and argue till our face turned blue, neither willing to back down, but our love for each other was too strong. No matter how angry, how furious we got one kiss could change it all. Make the whole world stop spinning. Change the tides.

Never had I dreamed of such a love like ours. Never had I felt such happiness. Never had I believed I could feel this much. It was all so ….powerful? magical?

And then he said, “No love, it was destiny.”

How To Handle Being Ignored

In my opinion there is nothing worse than wanting to get someones attention and being deprived of that wanting. Its just rude. Let me give you an example.

Cute boy starts talking to you and then decides to get all flirty and change the dynamics of the relationship, so you obviously comply. Duh hes cute! After a week or more (usually about three days for me) he randomly stops talking, texting and looking in your general direction.

WHAT DO YOU DO?

Answer: Nothing.

Tame the beast and control your inner psychopath cause after that we all know you’re about to break loose some serious stalker kinda crazy…and that would be bad. So horrendously bad.   I know! I know! If only he (or she) would just talk to you! Everything would be fine and you wouldn’t have to go ballistic.

Unfortunately the sad truth is, they are done. They don’t want to talk to you. So let. It. Be. Doing so will only make them realize how stupid they were..ideally. It will make them wonder how they could be that easy to get over..again this is the ideal scenario.

The good news? Well not much..BUT next time you know you might happen to see them make sure you really knock there socks off. Doll yourself up and portray the sexiest, most confident self ever to walk this green and blue ball of earth. In short become Megan Fox.

In conclusion, what do you do if you’re being ignored? Ignore them and find that inner seductress!

Best of luck! and be smart….as smart as you can be when being ignored…

Much Love,

Growing Up 18